![]() Conflict is a necessary part of human interaction, friendship, and relationship building. You don’t want to ignore conflict completely. They’re more interested in the gossip and drama than you are. You may feel like you can correct those wrong opinions or even lash back at the person by getting involved in the conflict, but it often doesn’t do any good. ![]() The opinions others have about you are not your business. Minding your business may be your best option. You may get hurt, stand up for yourself, and find that it goes nowhere because the other person feels justified in their actions. But do they think that way? Do they care? They may not. Sometimes you have chemistry with someone, sometimes you don’t and you go your separate ways. Introductions are made, small talk is developed, then the talks get deeper and more information is exchanged over time. Developing rapport and friendship with someone is usually done in smaller steps. Lonely people often try to rush the friendship process. From there, you wind up putting other people off and then you’re not able to create the connections that you desire. That translates into not minding your own business in relationships and friendships. Furthermore, you may be lacking the appropriate social skills to create healthy connections and relationships. Loneliness can cause people to do things that are out of character. You may not realize it, but prying and interfering in other people’s lives may also be a symptom of loneliness. You may be lonely and trying to develop a connection. It’s how you can mind your own business in life while simultaneously working toward what you want to experience. Instead of prying, you could instead be pursuing a new hobby, volunteering, exercising, or doing literally anything other than prying. Maybe you lack something meaningful to do that provides you with spiritual nourishment that is, something that makes you feel accomplished. Their curiosity simply gets the better of them because they are bored. Some people really do have nothing better to do with their time than gawk and meddle in others’ business. ![]() Granted, we live in a busy world where it seems like there is always something to do. There are a lot of hours in the day when you don’t have anything to occupy them. You don’t have anything better to do with your time. Those problems can be mental illness, personal circumstances, relationship issues, work stress, or anything that a person would want to avoid or escape. They may not be ready to deal with their own problems. A person not minding their own business may be engaging in avoidant behavior. ![]()
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